Solitude's Quiz

Ok. Haha. Solitude ask me to do this so I'll just do this to humour myself xD

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the objective of this meme is to write 8 points of your perfect lover (note... PERFECT so dun lie)

1) Physically Fit :
Haha... at least able to do what I can do. It'll be really awkward if I go swimming or gymming and my boyfriend is like "How do I use this machine?" or "Eh. I sink when I go into the pool. You go first."
Frankly, I'll get dissed.

2) Taller then ME! :
Definate must. LOL. I just would not feel really secure if my partner is like really short.

3) Linguistically Competant :
If you can understand what the two words above mean, you're in my league =D
haha. I think its important because I really HATE it when I've talked so long and somebody goes like "huh?" and is unable to reply because they do not understand half of what I'm saying.
(footnote: its not really a difficult thing to do because my standard of English isn't absurbly high - like *cough* some people)

4) Fantastic Complexion! :
It'll be great if he has a flawless complexion though. I'll most likely end up envying him every time I go out with him. BUT of course, if he has fantastic complexion without a body and dress sense to complement him, it cuts the points down. alot.

5) Body Shape :
I really envy mesomorphics. (basic apple-shaped body types). Though they have to watch their diet really closely, they are the ones who can make a really great body without putting in as much effort as endomorphics or ectomorphics.
(footnote: I'm an endomorphic by the way.)
But. Flabby fat is really quite gross. Way gross actually. Like Nicholas (my blood bro), when he jumps. =X
I'd rather an ectomorphic in that case.
I think guys that take care of their bodies and health well are really cool.

6) Metrosexual :
OF course! Or else how on earth do I go shopping for hours with him? And I'd really die if I've to go out with a person who wears huge over-sized polo tee-shirts with short pants.
oh. but I really dislike divas and people who are overly in-touch with their feminine side.
(what i mean is people who scream at every opportunity in a squeaky high pitch voice, flick their wrist and roll their eyes at every phrase and walk with their butts high up and chest stuck out like some undecerning peacock =)

7) Intelligence :
Definately one of the more important criterias. I do not belive in blatant stupidity. Rather I believe that each person has strenghts and weaknesses. But intelligence is an important factor I guess. General knowledge, computer game strategies and scientific knowledge is a plus point.

8) Christian :
This is the final and most important frontier in my relationships. I would really hate it if I have to spar over religion in my relationship. Though I know I would definately win in the end (through any means possible), I may end up being upset for the rest of the day.
More importantly, it means that I'll never have to worry about not being able to see him after I leave this world...
Moreover, it also means that we will have alot more to talk about!


Yupz. This is the answer in 8 points.
haha. I love these kinda quizzes. It makes me think about what I really want in life.

If you noticed, one point that I would usually put in the past is gone. That is, "able to give me whatever I want".
I guess you can call me wiser, but I realized something - in all relationships. That there is no such thing as passive or actives.
These factors merely acts as barricades for building relationships.

I guess everybody, is active/passive in a way, but depending on their characterisitics, they may feel the need to be acknowledged more. Usually the active is born in this circumstance.

haha. I have a blog entry quite some time ago about a study of Active and Passive relationships in the AJ community.



Yupz.
Finally, the above 8 points justifiably describes Dominic. So to me, he's perfect =D

but its not merely of these points that make him perfect.
Its also some of the dumb stuff that he does that make him completely perfect to me.

trust me. It is impossible to love a perfect human.

if I love him merely on those 8 points, it'll be infatuation.

To me, he's far beyond these 8 points...


yeah.